my husband has a low sex drive and has a hard time performing and has many reasons as medical{could be a problem there} then stress over some family troubles. He shows no desire or interest but says he loves me with all his heart and never wants to lose me. This is a big burden on me and is making my love weak. What advice could you give? I feel its me that he has no desire or interest.If its based on sex, its obvious you want sex, not him. watch a dirty movie oooohhhhh then youll get jealous and he'll want to get it on well you didn't say how long you been married and how old you are but since you are married you have to deal with it and except it unless you are really young then i would say its going to be a long boring life. If you would like to chat more about it email me from my profile and lets chat some more about itSex is a part of love but it's not all of it! With all the scum-bags out there your upset because of a man who is good to you and loves you with all his heart!? Try sitting down and having a honest, loving conversation with him and see what's wrong.Dress up sexy for him, take the initiative, try raunchy sex outdoors or a nice long massage or some skimpy lingerie.... :)go on a second honeymoon..do some experiments and make him leave all his problems behind...and of course talk to him about the situation you are in and that you are in need of it like everyone doesI know what you mean but in a different way. I went through a bunch of changes in the last two years (I lost like 140 pounds, menopause came on etc) and my sex drive went into overdrive. Still is ... My man on the other time use to have a very high sex drive and as he ages.. he is 52 or so... it is lowering...and he has had some physical problems that have resulted in having about three surgeries in the last three years. He is very good in bed thankfully and will do just about any thing I request. But he works at it. Much more than he use to. I try to curb my desire for sex as much as I can out of concern for him but I get very frustrated and I am afraid it shows. Sigh... I love the man but I wish that our needs and abilities would jive...doesn't seem to work that way though. Rats!!!!!
I have a hard time too not taking it personal. It isn't that he isn't interested... just that the body isn't what it use to be. Now my body on the other had can be a sex machine. Redirecting all that energy is hard. I am trying here but I do find myself thinking about others and that is not what I want to be doing. I write a lot of my fantasies out and use that as a sexual stress reliever. It helps some. Being on here helps too. I am on here a lot so talk to me if you want to through my profile. Take care sister...Ok rather than just missionary sex you should try new things. Do more four play don't focus on his lack of performance, focus on your sexual desires. Let him explore you. Buy toys make it exciting. Have Fun and Good Luck !!!Girl, go to the GYM, take care of your face and wear the sexiest underwear withone of his t-shirts over you, and he'll be begging for the lovin.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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